Ok. With this amount of sand coming into and being retained in the pool would indicate that the underground line has over time cracked and is drawing sand into the returning water source for the pool.
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The pool did fine for the first few years.
This would indicate that very possibly the initial installation went wrong. This is not as uncommon as you may think. It just takes a small shift in the ground to crack the line and cause this. I have seen it occur frequently here in Florida.
I checked the Hayward filter system and they appear to be of high quality.
It just appears that the above scenario is going to be the problem. These filters will only filter so much out until the remainder overflows back to the pool.
Ruling out other source's of sand entering the pool such as blowing wind driven sand, then this could be the only cause.
A test could be done to decide this. Clear pool of all sand. Clean out the filter system completely and leave filter out. Run your system for about 10 mins and check to see if a quantity of sand is back in the filtration system. If this is the case then you have a crack sucking sand in from underground. The pool itself could have an unknown leak or crack in it allowing the sand to enter into the pool and then the filtration system. It can only be either of these problems.
I would suggest a complete check of your pool for this cause. It may require the emptying of the pool itself to examine for cracks or cracked liners. If it is a underground pipe that is cracked this will be much harder to locate and repair short of digging the line up and replacing it.
I hope this has helped you somewhat.
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