Hi,
Can I ask why your marriage will be over?
I understand that weight can put a small strain on some marriages but this is no reason to have your marriage in jeopardy.
I hope you don't mind me saying it sounds like you may need relationship counseling as it is unfair for you to feel that your weight issues are causing a breakup of your marriage.
Now with that being said ;0) If you are wishing to lose weight it has to be something you want to do, not something you are doing to please someone else, if not you will be subjected to allot of stress and that will cause binges (thats me).
I have been using the South beach diet diet for close to six months with a 3 day exercises routine, though a simple one I dance around the house allot when I am cleaning and even when I am on line I am doing leg lifts. (I still have a ways to go but the weight is coming off after 4 kids)
I am going to refer you to a great site that will tell you more about the diet, there is a membership fee but if you type south beach diet in your search engine it will bring up a wealth of information. Though proper diet and exercises is the way to go health wise I understand that it doesn't always work that way (been there done that)
South Beach Diet
Melissa
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