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hello, i have been doing really stupid spur of the moment things, the most recent is sending a picture of my vagina to the husband of my best friend. i dont know why i did it, something just seems to click in my head and i do something really idiotic. what is wrong with me?

Submitted: 27 days and 12 hours ago.
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Gender: Female
Age: 45

Posted by Dr. Kaushik 27 days and 11 hours ago.

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Hi there ,

 

Welcome to Just answer !

 

Kindly answer a few questions ..

 

1) are you attracted to tht man ?

 

2) do feel lonely and need for companionship ?

 

3) was this one of a kind of incident ?

 

Regards..

27 days and 11 hours ago.

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i do like the man i sent the picture to and often think about him. my husband thinks i am having an affair with him but this is not true. i do not get any affection from my husband and if i do want just a hug he thinks that is a sign for sex which is something i dont want to do with him. this is the first time i have done anything like this.

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Thanks for the reply..

 

Well, it just seems to be one impulsive act from your side , due to your emotions and loneliness overwhelming you and you giving in to the temptation , this can happen to anyone who is in your kind of circumstance where in you and your husband seem to be having a rough phase in your relationship which needs attention from you as well as your husband , so i will request you to rake up the topic of rough phase of your relationship with your husband and convince to accompany you to relationship expert , who can in an unbiased way help you to sort out the issues in your relationship .

 

However, as far as your recent act is concerned , it was once a time kind of a impulsive act , so you just need to forget about it , and move on in life without dwelling on it any further, but since you do have problems with your husband , otherwise you would not have been interested in a man outside your marriage , it only happened as you were not getting enough attention and importance from your husband , so this is what needs attention and concern that is to get back to a healthy relationship with your husband and a relationship counselor can really help you to rekindle the spark betwen the two of you whch is but ofcurse has been missing of late.

 

I hope this helps..

 

I wish you all the best..

 

Please press the ACCEPT button if you are satisfied with the answer as only the will i be credited for my service.

 

Regards..

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Expert: Dr. Kaushik
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