Hello,
I do not blame yo for being cautious. However there are no iron clad guarantees. This woman has demonstrated that she hjas matured and moved on from her previous wildness. As we age we become more in touch with the less material and more emotional aspects of our life. Given what you have said, I see every reason to give it a chance as in reality you already have. To just further accommodate your fears you might get involved in a course of family therapy to just give some extra reassurance. I suggest you obtain a referral from the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists at http://www.aamft.org/. Best wishes and good luck!
Sincerely,
Ralph LMHC
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