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Have a child who is 12. back in Jan 02 I got divorce and he wanted custody of our child. He did not get but always said don't worry the time will come. Now I know what he meant. Does my child get to chose where he wants to live? I feel he is being pressured to chose but I just dont want him to make the wrong decesion.. We live in Texas..

Submitted: 39 days and 21 hours ago.
Category: Legal
Value: $18
Status: AWAITING CUSTOMER ACTION
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Thank you for your question.

 

A child does not get to decide where he wants to live, though a court does have discretion to take into account a child's wishes. Ultimately, what a court will look at in a custody action is to do what it believes is in the best interest of the child. Therefore, they will consider issues such as: the emotional, physical and mental health of the child; the child's relationship to both parents; the parents relationship with one another (and how accomodating a custodial parent will be in foster a relationship between the non-custodial parent and child); each parent's ability to care for and provide for the child, etc. A court is also often reluctant to change the "status quo" without good cause; that is to say, if the child has been living with you, without a showing by the other parent why it would be in the child's best interest to stay with them, a court typically won't change the custody arrangement.

 

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Answered: 10/14/2009

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39 days and 20 hours ago.

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My son has been living with me. He has been failing behind in school cause of the pressure. I tell there is no need to worry. His father says he is failing in school cause of me. I have changed my job to be home more and he just keeps saying that my son does not want to live with me. I think that he tells him things to make him want to go over there. My son says he wants to move and then the next thing he says he does not.So I think he is confused. Do you think if he takes me to court it going to be worth all the trouble that my son is going to have to go thru? His father talk to my son and he has told him what he is gonna have to say if we go to court.

39 days and 20 hours ago.

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What would happen if his father does take me to court? my son tells me that his father already told him what he is going to have to say. I just dont want my son to get hurt in the long run...

Posted by RobertJDFL 39 days and 20 hours ago.

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Thank you for your reply.

 

The fact that your child is having a little trouble in school isn't going to be enough in and of itself for a judge to grant a change of custody. Many children have difficulty with school, it doesn't mean you yourself are an unfit parent. Also, a judge isn't going to look kindly upon one parent speaking negatively about the other in front of the child, like your child's father is doing. Even if the judge allows your son to tell the court which parent he wishes to live with, it is not the deciding factor for the judge -as I said, ultimately, they will look to do what is best for the child based on the circumstances. Changing of custody is extremely difficult once it has been established without good cause, and here I don't think it exists. However, your ex is still entitled to file the motion and be heard. The court may not even want to hear from you son at all, but if he does, often times, the judge will ask questions of the child, so being told ahead of time what he has to say isn't likely to help-because no one knows what the judge is going to ask.

 

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