Greetings.
Does your penis bends or kinks when you have erection?
Is there a small lump or swelling felt on penis?
Are you able to masturbate?
When you try to initiate sex, are you able to achieve erection?
Do you loose the erection anytime in between?
Dr. Arun
Hello,
I can understand all this and this is quite draining, especially with your young age. Since there is absence of morning erections, a testosterone hormone is essential for the work up, a low level of which can be responsible for the problem. If that is the problem, just testosterone supplement should be able to revert it easily. Blood tests for diabetes should also be done as an undiagnosed diabetes may be partially responsible for the problem. Since there is a bending / kinking with inadequate filling of one side of penis, Peyronie's disease is quite likely. So treatment for this should be initiated as soon as possible. The treatment entails, either an injection/shot of steroid on penis or a surgical correction. Read the details here;
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/peyronies-disease/DS00427
All of this problems do affect the self esteem and causes low confidence level. But believe me this is a treatable problem and you would be normal. Following also may be helpful;
1) Sex therapy sessions; reduce performance pressure and focus on pleasure. About 20 sessions may be needed for the optimal outcome.
2) Hypnosis
3) Avoidance of the stress, anxiety, and other factors. Enjoying the sex, changing position for best glans stimulation and partner's effort also play an integral component in the positive results.
You should consult the second urologist again for the evaluation.
Please feel free for your follow up questions.
Doctor
Specialist is sports medicine psychology. Certified in yoga, relaxation techniques and meditation.
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