Thank you for your question.
A guardian ad litem is only appointed to represent a party for a single action (in this case, the custody issue), and are generally appointed by the court. Therefore, they would not be able to assist you in this matter.
I would suggest you contact Children and Family Services to see if they can offer any assistance to you with respect to your grandson. If they cannot offer you any assistance, then you may wish to consult with a local family law attorney regarding getting temporary guardianship of your grandson, at least until such time that your son or the girlfriend is in a better position to care for him. If you were appointed as his guardian, he could come live with you and you would be responsible for making all legal decisions concerning his welfare.
Guardianships can be very expensive, very complicated matters, so you would definately need the advice of an attorney before proceeding with such.
Good luck to you. If you have any additional questions, please press the reply button, and I will be happy to assist you further.
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