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Hello,

First of all, a few words about rats and mice as pets. Both make good pets, and rats, in particular, are very personable. They are more intelligent than mice, and can even be taught tricks. The short lifespan is the biggest drawback.

Under your circumstances, I think it would be best to wait until everything in your life is more stable. Dogs are very sensitive to human moods. You may have noticed that Tuki has tried to comfort you when you're depressed. Anxiety, however, is another story. Many dogs become anxious when their humans feel that way. They pick up on the emotion and are afraid that something is very wrong. Dogs can also suffer from anxiety and panic disorders, and a puppy around an anxious person would be at risk. Dogs feeling anxiety often urinate in the house, tear things up, and show other forms of destruction. They can be difficult to live with.

In addition, you'll be living through some big changes in your own life. Puppies require an enormous amount of time, and you may not be in a position to give that right now. I would suggest that you wait until you're settled in and have adjusted to living on your own. At that point, a stable young adult dog, already housebroken, would probably be your best choice. If there's a certain breed you're interested in, give me your state, and I'll see if I can find a rescue group you can contact when you're ready.

In the meantime, if you just want something living in your new home, you might want to consider a fish tank. Fish do require weekly water changes, and the tank has to be set up properly in the beginning, but they're a pretty easy to care for. Scientific studies have shown that watching fish in a tank relaxes and calms us. If you think fish may be an option, let me know, and I'll give you more information on them.

Of course, you can always go visit Tuki for some companionship. If you have more questions or want further information on any of the above, just let me know by clicking on REPLY. There's no additional fee for such follow-up questions, and I'm happy to help.

Anna

Expert:	Anna
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Answered:	8/9/2009

Pet Expert/Biologist

40 yrs.: herps, pocket pets, rabbits, poultry, dogs, horses. Biology degree. Volunteer vet assistant