there is no custody order in place, we are married 17 years and both of us have custody of our 2 children ages 5 and 12. as the children get older,we seem to disagree more. my husband is going out of town in a couple of weeks and i have to work,i work nights so my husband has asked his parents to watch the children.i find them to be irresponsable and my 5 yr. old son is quite a handful.i reluctantly agreed since they only live 5 minutes away. now my daughter who is 12yr. old informs me the other night that her grandparents will be taking them away out of town for the weekend. these kids have never slept overnight with their grandparents never mind going out of town for the weekend.i told my husband that his parents do not have my permission to take the children out of town his response was too bad they are going. do i have any legal recourse. i would think that the consent of both parents would be needed please help.