Hello g,
Hold the reset down for 30 sec and start all over. You may have to turn power off to the unit and back on, but usually a 30sec hold will reset. Let me know how you do.
Billy
What is the model and make of your oil burner primary?
I am attaching a tech manual on a primary that I feel is either the one you have or one very close to it.
Refer to reset section of restricted lockout.
http://www.forwardthinking.honeywell.com/related_links/combustion/r7184u/install/69_1384.pdf
HVAC Mechanic
State Licensed Mechanical Contractor, Heating, Cooling, Oil Burners, Heat Pumps, Boilers, Geothermal
your welcome, keep me posted.