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Hi...

Thanks for the additional information. I'm glad he's not actually attacking. But it sounds like he's afraid of something.

Since this is new behavior for him, I'd have him checked over by a vet, just to be sure nothing's wrong. While this really does sound like a behavior issue, you want to be absolutely certain he doesn't have a physical problem.

Having a baby around the house is stressful for everyone, including the cat. Even though it's been six months, all the changes... the new sounds and new smells... might be upsetting him.

"Giving him space" really does sound like the best solution. If you approach him, and he starts to hiss, just leave him alone. You could also try making yourself as small as possible when approaching him... bend over so you're not towering over him. You'll appear less threatening to him that way. Don't look him straight in the eye. That's catspeak for "I want to fight." Instead, look away from him or blink at him. Looking away tells him you don't want to bother or harm him. Blinking sends a friendly message.

Rescue Remedy could take the edge off his anxiety and fear. This homeopathic-like remedy causes no side effects and will not make your cat feel or seem like he's drugged. Most health food stores sell it.

I like to put a couple of drops on a fingertip and rub it into the cat's fur on the top of his or her head between the ears. You can do this several times a day for up to six weeks.

I hope I'm answering your question. From the way your question was worded it sounded like the cat's freaking out when someone other than you is holding the baby. If that's the case, let me know and I'll give you some different suggestions.

Please feel free to write back to me if you'd like to talk more.
Missy