Hello, I can help you with this. You may have a bad control unit but there are a couple things you can try. First eject the disc and make sure it isn't scratched or damaged in any way.
If its ok, dis connect the battery and clamp the two cables together. Then turn the key on and leave it on for 10-15 minutes. This is like rebooting a PC.
Then reconnect the battery and enter the code. If that doesn't help, the unit will probably have to be repaired or replaced.
Yes try the reboot procedure. The units are very expensive to replace. 1500-2000 dollars.
We usually send out for repair, 600-700
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