Dear XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX - Adoption and guardianship are not the same. In an adoption you actually become the parent of the child. In a guardianship you have legal control over the child but are not forced to continue and can withdraw at any time. An adoption is for the life of the child.
Obviously I can't read the mind of the DCF but it is my guess that they want finality for the children. If they are adopted they have a permanent home guaranteed. A guardianship could last until they are 18 but it is not a certainty and the children do not obtain the same legal rights as to the guardians as they would to parents.
Since you are not willing to adopt the DCF is probably looking for someone who is willing to become the actual parents of the girls.
David Kennett - JD - Attorney at Law
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25 years experience as practicing attorney