Dear bigg,
thanks for your question.
Whether or not it is legal for the others to clalim the children remains to be seen. However if she is the custodial parent, she does not have to allow you to claim them.
Here is how it works.
The parent with whom the children reside the greater part of the year is the custodial parent. the non-custodial parent can not claim the children unless:
1. The mother signs a form 8332
2. The mother signs a statement which contains the same elements and content of the form 8332, or
3. Uless you have a custody agreement or court document containing the same elements of the form 8332 that allow you to claim the children when she does not.
For any non-related person to claim the children the following must be true:
AND if the child was the qualifying child of two people such as the mother and the non-related person, the two of them have to agree as to who gets to claim the children.
AND if the mother has a filing requirement or files to claim the EIC, then the non-relative can not claim the child.
If you suspect the mother is abusing this situation and allowing unqualified persons to claim her child, then you can report it to the IRS.
Tax Preparer
GPHR Cert; U.S. Treasury Tax Advocacy Panel appointee
Dear biggwwright,
She can not do that.
Look at the rules.
If you think she is violating the rules you may report her to: http://www.irs.gov/individuals/article/0,,id=106778,00.html