You cannot file head of household if you are married and living together.
If one of you makes less than the other than married filing jointly may be advisable. If you are using a software than prepare a joint tax return and than compare it with split return (this option is normally available in the software)
Let me know if you have any question.
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You do not have to delete your W-2. There should be an option to compare it with Split returns Option.
Since his income is low, his claiming the children may not be as beneficial as if you were to claim(provided your income is not too high).
Infact, from the details so far, I would say that married filing jointly would be more beneficial for you.
It is possible that no federal taxes were taken out since you claimed more number of allowances.
Regarding refund going down to $1500 - if you both file separately it is possible that you both will end up paying or getting even lower than $1500 (combined together).
Married filing separately is at a higher tax rate, the standard deduction is lower and certain tax credits are not available if you file married filing separately.
Link to an article for your reference-
http://taxes.about.com/od/filingstatus/qt/marriedseparate.htm