I live in Utah and my ex-husband and 2 children live in California, I have not seen my kids in 4 years, My ex is finally willing to re-introduce me as there mother and we would like to know how to get advice from a Family Therapist or Counseler on how to do this since I can not afford to fly to Cal. each week for Counseling but he is not willing to let me see or speak to them til we do this. PLEASE HELP! Sincerely, Desperate Mommy