im in calif

the police don't even seam to want to get to involved with this . we have started paper work for a restraining order . but are considered about his unpredictables behavior, and with are witnessing his blatant disregards for any thing dealing with authority hell just blow it off then we to what every time we have a confrontation call the police or Evey time he trows are property around and when we notice it call the police. when he physically attacked me and i said what the f**ks your prob . i didn't hit him back i felt i really Delt with it in a very non advisee and fairly responsible manner the police told me . if i file charges and have him taken to jail they would have to take me to jail to because the statement "what the f**ks your prob " was considered an assault to...... looking back i should of told the take me to jail for it , but were I'm going with this is the cops don't feel this is a problem they should deal with . and i agree its childish stupid and one of these days it going to end up with someone getting killed here. and most likely it will be my wife and me