The problem that you have is that it is a 4th preference category. This has about a 12 year wait. And currently, there is no law that allows you to jump ahead in line of anyone else that is also waiting. You can take a look at the most current visa bulletin under 4th preference family based immigration. You will notice that the current date is 1OCT1997. This means that until that date reaches 30APR2001 or later, you cannot use that petition.
You cannot leave the U.S. either because then you would not be able to come back in for 10 years. So unless a new law comes out (which might after the elections), or unless you get divorced and each of you remarries to a U.S. Citizen (for love, of course), there isn't much that you can do except wait.
Here is a link to the most current visa bulletin:
http://travel.state.gov/visa/frvi/bulletin/bulletin_4328.html
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Thank you for your reply i really appreciate the answer. My daughter got married to a US citizen and she wants to file for me but right now she is a conditional residence. She got her green card 3.16.06 and she has file to take off the conditional residence. I would like to know when will she be eligible to file for me and when will she be able to file for citizen