Dear XXXXXXXX - While you are permitted to represent yourself in domestic relations court I would strongly suggest that you seek an attorney to assist you in this matter. A 34 year marriage is long term and there will be many issues of property involved that you may overlook if you try to do this pro se.

If you want to try it by yourself you should file a complaint for divorce and make a motion for exclusive use of the premises. Your husband will, of course, have the opportunity to respond to your complaint and the court will set the matter for a hearing. If there is violence involved you can also ask the court for a restraining order of protection.

Many courts have forms available for pro se litigants so you should contact the clerk of courts in your area and ask if they have any forms. If not you would have to prepare your own complaint and other documents such as affidavits of income and expenses and child custody if there are any minor children of the marriage.

As you can see, this can get complicated and that is why I urge you to seek legal counsel.

David Kennett - JD - Attorney at Law

As I said, you would need to get a court order. Until then you have equal access to the marital residence. You can try to seek a protection order but you would have to show violence has occurred. I have attached the website for the Maryland State Bar Association. You can contact them for a referral in your area since we are not permitted to recommend individual lawyers.

Dave Kennett

http://www.msba.org/