Code section 414(p)(1) refers to the requirements for a qualified domestic relations order (QDRO). This document should be drafted by your attorney and meet the requirements noted in the links below.
http://www.expertlaw.com/library/family_law/qdro.html
http://www.fourmilab.ch/ustax/www/t26-A-1-D-I-B-414.html
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