Hi,
Sorry for your loss.
What state are you in?
rich
Hi tax,
You are the next best thing to a named executor. You can petition the court to be appointed when offering the will for probate. Too bad ....if under 20K you could have filed an affidavit as a "small estate" in NY. The trust is self executing of course. You can't avoid the nursing home bill because the bonds SHOULD have been reported. You will see that when you fill out the probate forms you will have to list the bonds and the bill and give notice of probate to the home.
Attorney
30+ years in private practice handling estate matters; Law professor; Mediator.