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A sensitivity to noise in isolation (meaning without anything else that is concerning for any developmental problems or delays), really is just that. Some kids are very sensitive to noise, they either have good hearing, or a low threshold for tolerance of noise.
Basically if he is doing well otherwise I would not worry at all about this.
To give you a personal example, we had to sit out of Disney on Ice Princess with a real die hard princess fan for two years in a row because the sound was too much for my then 4 (and then 5) year old...after that I stopped taking her to loud events. She was unable to sit for a movie theater movie until around 6 for the same reason. Not all movie theaters are as loud as some are so you may be able to find one that is not overpowering. This same kiddo also complains that her classmates are so loud and recently would have headaches she attributed to the noise.....
Thus I would just take into account he is sensitive to loud noises, let his teacher now, and try to gradually increase his time at school if you can as he will get accustomed to the noise level there. If it is the first time he is going to school than the noise would be enough to scare him for a bit (coupled with the newness of being without you and in a new environment!).
In terms of movies and other loud events (like the Disney on Ice :) you can just avoid them for another year or so until you feel that he has become more adjusted to hearing loud levels of noise. There actually may be physical differences in his little hair cells that perceive sound in his ears from other kids, and they may move more with louder vibrations thus making loud noise physically uncomfortable for him.
This should get better though as he ages as we all "loose" sensitivity in these cells as we age.
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so it sounds like nothing to be too worried about right now
Not really no except to avoid the fireworks and other loud events! Although autistic kids have this sensitivity to sound as a general characteristic this is coupled with many many other characteristics that will lead you to believe there is a developmental problem. Just an isolated sensitivity to sound is not concerning.
You have brought back some funny memories though of my first one screaming in Disney on Ice and me embarrassingly taking her outside of the arena to listen from outside the doors!
well, sound and being around large groups of people, and some social interaction. But usually just until he gets to know the other kids. My wife is concerned that it may be something more serious, but I think it is just how some kids are.
I think she is comparing him to our 2 yo daughter that will just go start talking to anyone
He can be sensitive to sound and shy too and these things together aren't concerning. He may be "slow to warm up" but as long as he does eventually warm up and socialize well with his peers no worries! Amazing how sibling can be so different!
ya, I think that is all it is but am thankful for a professional opinion. I think he is just not happy with having to go to school and be away from his parents all day. he has never had to do that before.
but he will need to get used to it before Kindergarten anyway.
and this is his way of showing his displeasure
Maybe so, but to cut him some slack it is a totally different experience from all he has known and felt comfortable with before so give him some time to warm up to the idea. It is a good thing to have him go before kindergarten and this year will be really useful in teaching him how to start to get to know new kids and play with them well.
In a few months he will more than likely like to go and get bored at home :)
ya it will be good for him, it is just a difficult transition. We don't have any other option right now either, so I need to find a way to get him more comfortable as quickly as I can
This should work out well don't worry. Preschool at his age is actually thought to be beneficial for lots of reasons so hopefully he will adjust sooner rather than later so you can feel good about taking him.
Best of luck to you!