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I believe that I can help.
You son cannot change his brain. He can learn to cope with his several shortcomings and survive and prosper.
Let me recommend some wonderful books that will be able to train him and vastly improve his life.
You may need to get him started, and these books will also make life easier for you as you understand how to deal with his needs.
For the workplace:
and this classic book:
Finally, look at this site as well:
His life, and yours, can definitely improve with some knoweldge and self-help.
Warm regards, Elliott
MAE, LPCC, NCC, CCMHC