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Thats what im most afraid of is his fathers place he visits is not suitable to visit. His father has moved to e3 different places in a year whereas where i live, hes lived for 2 1/2 yrs just him, his brother and i. but this is all becoming a problem because hes being kicked out of daycare risking my employment.
His father has now made a false claim to cops that i beat my child. He said my son also said it. This is the second time he tried to get my son to lie. The officer told me when he looked and took pictures that there was no marks or evidence on his body. This issue with his father is not deteriorating. Im gonna bring this up to his therapist but what are my options here.
Bring up the issue that his father is claiming tjat i hit himeven though theres no evidence. Maybe the therapist can get out of my son what is going on and why he said that. His dad manipulates his head to try and get him to lie. Not hard with a four yr old. i worry for my sons safetyat his dads house and would like to keep him with me till his dad brings me to court.
I think that you MUST discuss this with your therapist. Secondly, can you make sure that you take some photos with the camera showing date and time before each visit to his Dad, so that you have ongoing concrete evidence.
Also, check with your legal advisor as to your rights as custodial parent, and explain to him or her your fears about the little one visiting his Dad. Perhaps his Dad´s access can be limited to your home.