ok I guess this deals with screaming and crying:
our baby screams when he wants attention. we are trying to not go to him immedaitely when he does this. what is general rule of how long we should wait before going to him.
secondly, when he cries, it is usually in the late afternoons when he gets colicky. if he cries, we are there in less than 2 minutes. I imagine this may not be the best either? what is general rule of how long to leave the baby when he cries.