I am 67 and my husband is 71 and still working 50 hrs a week. We have 4 boys and 3 have alcohol and drug problems. The one that doesn't is an engineer with a degree and takes care of his family. My husband and myself haven't had any issues with alcohol, or drugs I don't understand!!!We can't afford to take care of all the kids by our boys and I feel guilty, I don't understand. I'm retired and my husband should be.