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not sure why it should be so hard for anyone to give me some ideas on how to make him responsible for his life and his actions. Leave it up for a bit.. - guess the experts that are reviewing it are not expert at giving advice for making kids responsible for their own behavior????????????
thanks - i might want to add that he was admittded to a psch ward, voluntarily to be checked for his mental state ( he is not a violent person) however the parents at his school would like a pro to say so.. but still we need a way to discourage him from wanting to come home for extended vacations and having no real way to do that. Our house turns into a jail trying to keep him off computers etc and from creeping around the house at night.. .. some suggestions would be greatly appreciated. He wants nothing except computer time or game time and then cheats on the time he earns and steals extra. So that's a tough one. Common.. could really use your ideas.. even if ONE worked it would help us .. please.
forget it .. thanks