My daughter is in 10th grade in high school. She is getting d's and f's in her classes and is failing. She has told us she thinks she is gay and has no friends. She is a great athlete and plays travel softball. She spends all her free time in her room on her i-phone or her computer on Facebook. We have taken all her stuff away but just makes things worse. I feel like I'm loosing my daughter and in fear of pushing her too far. She states that we are not letting her be herself. i don't know how to handle her or how to proceed. What do I do?