Do I need to tell her that it is her who does not want to see me?
You are absolutely right. I sent my gaughter some books from "Amazon".com on a new approach whiah is called "Natured Heart Approach" which I consider is very useful for everybody. She thinks that those books are for Special Ed. children, that's why she became angry and told me that my granddaughter does not want me to come to visit her on Christmas.
Thank you for your help.