Hello, I would like to assist you today.
If I understand correctly, your daughter is no longer living with you, and you want to redecorate her room, however your feeling is that she will take it personal?
yes that's right
Pardon my absence. Is your daughter planning on returning to your home?
Did you think about asking her advice about how to decorate the room. Maybe if you give her some input on it; Pick out several designs that you like yourself, and ask for her advice on which one she likes best. This should help her to still feel involved in the home, and less as though you are trying to push her away.
I would like to get more input from you to help better answer your question. I look forward to your response, as I would be more than happy to advise you on the concerns that you have for your daughter. When you're ready, please message for "earthsister. Thanks!
thanks for your response and good avdvise, sorry i was busy til now so couldn't reply. I will invlove her which is what she wanted anyway but she keeps putting it off and there is a lot of extreme and really crude things drawn all over the inside and outside of the room, including on the ceiling and floor, so i can't use it for other people yet, she is a troubled girl but i can't go into details on this open forum