Yes I was never introduced as a dad. Being around her an her kids I find myself doing parenting and teaching stuff, just a role I'm not ready for. She is a reasonable person but its a difficult thing to talk about but I dont think I can prolong this. I need to tell her right away. Its been eating away at me for the last month so I'm glad you dont see it as being selfish. Yes I am not living with he, that would be way too soon. But I really got attached to her when her kids werent here, we spent everyday together. I will talk with her tonight.
I am sad about it because she is a beautiful person even as a mother. But I have to do whats rights. Any suggestions in talking to her about it?
Thank you. You have made it very clear for me.