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Who was the one who left a six and seven year old alone with a B B Gun?
I think that the problem is that your son and his cousin were put in an adult situation by an adult (which should not have happened), seeing that 6 and 7 year olds are not the most self-controlled; this should not have happened (I am not even sure if a 6 and 7 year old should be shooting a BB Gun, even with adult supervision). I do agree that your son should be told that this is not the way to use a BB Gun, and that yes he should help clean, and possibly contribute some money; but giving him the full blame for what happened, and keeping him from the skating party of his cousin's, I think is a bit too harsh. The adult who left these children unsupervised with a BB gun should really be the one who takes responsibility.