I understand what you are saying but it seems the more I say no the more he seems to want to repeat the behaviour as if it is a game.
ok but was there anything in partciular you did which seemed to work as I've been very consistent and it hasnt worked. He really isnt like any toher cvhildren in the groups i go to and its not just occassionally its like his obsessed with hurting other children? How long did the phase last with your children?
Thankyou for your time but I have already tried all your methods you have suggested and been very consitent with disciplin so I feel I havn't learnt anything new