i did ask her why and she said she didn't know. Now they both are crying because they know that i'm upset...I just had them help with breakfast and then I noticed that they were very quiet. I had an entire day of activities planned, nail salon, shopping...should I cancel and take the other child home?
Actually, you are helping me process as we speak...i'm am going to call the mother however, I see that my daughter fears that I don't love her because she wrote me a love you note. I am calm enough to at least get to the nail salon and not totally ruin the day...they've ben writing I love my best friend and love you notes for over a year and we finally have a sleepover and this happens. It feels like failure on my part.
They should update the how is this answer...when you're dealing with a stressful situation...love it appears to be a response to a good situation....sometimes it can be challenging to love the truth...just my thoughts...thanks for walking me through this...i'm going to seek some additional counseling...we never know how we as parents impact our children...and i'd rather identify my deficiencies sooner than later.