I just wonder if she is trying to get my attention by having accidents because then that pulls me away from her sister to be with her. I try very hard to divide my time between my two girls. They are both very mommy focused, wanting me to do everything with them, not Daddy. But when I am not around (working or traveling) then they are just fine with Daddy. Why do children typically regress or have accidents at this age?
Sorry, She still has accidents with her Dad, I meant that she doesn't whine for me when Im not there. She will have accidents at friends homes too when she is playing and just doesn't want to stop what she is doing. I am trying to figure out if its that she doesn't realize she has to go or if she doesn't care or is just so focused on her toys. Is that manipulation? And why would they increase now? Do you think a move to a new house in the same neighborhood would be enough to do that. She used to be at home w/ a nanny for 3 days a week and then in January we moved her to preschool full time. I also work from home. Thanks for your help!