Thanks for your reply. I currently do do the same routine as you have suggested. I will get back out the reward chart and try that but i think it has now become psychological for him. Was thinking of getting him some councelling through school ?
Toying with the idea of letting him have dvd in bed to get him through as it might take his mind off it. I know this should not be done and i have never done it but am currently aqt my wits end /