Dr. Shirley Schaye,
She left college because she was home sick, disliked her roommate, made no attempt at making no new friends so was a little lonely. She would call home and cry for the first 2 months of the semester. Then it stopped and it became more about coming home to her boyfriend them missing her family and being home sick. Let me add in here, that the boyfriend spend every weekend that he could in her dorm with her.
She is in college, just locally and living at home.
So if I understand your answer, I need to talk to her about prioritizing the things in her life. I believe they may be different from what I want for her. (college, job, friends and family, social life with boyfriend). I then need to accept the decisions she makes from these priorities, as she is making them as an adult. If she chooses the boyfriend over college, I will need to find a way to accept that this will be her choice, and as her mother explain the consequences of postponing an education, ect..
Thank you for your help, I have a clear picture of how to approach this in a manner that will give me the peace I need. Hopefully no more sleepless nights!