How old is your daughter? Perhaps a change in scenery is needed. Many teen girls respond to a change in their bedrooms - rearrange furniture or have her choose a new paint color. If she takes some responsibility for her space, she might be more motivated to keep it clean. Even a new bin for the laundry has been known to do the trick. As a last resort, if you do her laundry, she might be more apt to pick up her dirty bits if cleaning her clothes is her responsibility.
my daughter is 19 she is in catering college and every one thinks the world of her but at home is remote and difficult
Hello again, thanks for the reply. That is wonderful that she is in college. Catering is a great field. Has she always been distant? Is this with everyone? Or just at home?