I can only imagine how you feel when this occurs. You are doing the best you can and now by reaching out for help you will have more "tools in your tool box" so to speak. I wanted to ask a couple of questions so I can better help with the question. If you don't mind please respond back to me at your convenience.
I will await your answers which will allow me to better individualize your answer specifically for your daughter. I look forward to working with you more.