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Dr. Shirley Schaye
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Experience:  PhD-Psych; Certif. Psychoanalyst NPAP& NYFS; Memb.APsaA;IPA; Pub.Author; Teach/Supervise Therapy
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Hi how do you get help for someone who is displaying all the

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Hi how do you get help for someone who is displaying all the signs of a mental illness
believing other people need the mental help yet everything they say is a reflection of
who they are. Being a toxic person to her children not allowing their father to have
any contact with the children that they now hate him. How do you beat this?
Submitted: 4 years ago.
Category: Parenting
Expert:  Dr. Shirley Schaye replied 4 years ago.
I am very sorry to hear this and touched by your sensitivity and awareness of indeed how cruel this mother's behaviour is. It is unfortunate, though, that there is not much you can do about her. The laws of our land are such that if a person is not a minor and is not homicidal or suicidal there is not anything you can do. Even for someone who is homicidal or suicidal you need a two physician certificate (2PC) to get them committed.
There is another route you can take. If you are aware of this mother's neglect or pathological behaviour towards her children, you can report her to your county shildren's services. They will then go in and do an evaluation and make the mother abide by what they recommend. Otherwise, they do have the option of removing the children from the home.
Expert:  Dr. Shirley Schaye replied 4 years ago.

Of course, if this was a woman that you could sit down and talk to this would be a different matter. If not,then the other alternative of finding an issue to report to childrens' services is the only avenue to take.

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