You are so very welcome. God will lead you in the right direction. He has a plan for you and your daughter and it will happen in His time. Just be patient.
If you ever need any more advice, please contact me. I would love to hear back from you to see how things are going.
You will be in my prayers.
Erica (that's my real name)
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All of your thoughts are completely on target. Heather must grow up and be independent. She must learn to fend for herself. This life is hard and you must work for what you want. She has your support and her boyfriend's support so it is not like she is being abandoned.
Additionally, it sounds like your ex does not want to see you happy and is very jealous that you have found a new person in your life. He sounds miserable and wants you to be miserable as well. Don't let him bring you down.
You are in a good place right now. Live your life. Love your life. You have done so much for others. I am happy for you. Heather will be fine. Give her space. Let her grow up some more. She may be mad but all storms will pass.
Stay in touch!!!
hi jordan, after all ron has said over all this time, i can't believe he called me back to ask for an address to mail me what he owes for power company, car ins and directv because they get paid thru my bank account. since i told ron i give him notice till end of july, he is also telling me he has to get heather to figure what she will do for herself. i never said they have to leave and ron can afford the rent, etc there, but heather said she doesn't want to stay there with her dad and ron said he doesn't like trailers and will go back to his family in PA. i feel like i am still in limbo not knowing what they will do, but i can't turn anything off there until end of july. after that it will be in ron's name if he can't leave yet. he recently told me he has to have outpatient surgery on 27july. i hope all goes well, and i told him that, but i don't want to pay for anything past july---am i wrong for feeling this way? my sis-in-law kim in knoxville sent invitations and told me about a gathering my brothers and i will be putting on for my parents july 1st. i told kim about chris and they have both chatted on the phone and she is so happy for me being happy and chris is invited and will be coming with me to this party. i am also very excited!! chris and i pray about everything going on every day and we thank god for each other. i hope i never wake up from this dream, because this is so much a blessing from god to be real....talk soon, jordan. take care and god bless always!