Hello and Thank You for using Just Answer. If you have been dating each other exclusively and since you already live with each other, the usual time to wait is 9-12 months for an introduction of a significant other. It is perplexing why the judge would make you wait 4 more months. The only feasible reasons are to have the child/children make it through the summer without any drama and to start off the school year without drama, which there probably will not be. Unfortunately, you will have to comply with the judge's orders and not my or your opinions. :/ Have a great Tuesday!!!