Hello and Thank You for using Just Answer. I am sorry to hear about the problems that you are having with your son. It sounds as though your son is being manipulated by Amber and he lets her have her way with anybody and anything. She is not the type of woman that should be in your son's life but unfortunately she is. If they act the same way at Steve's dad's house, he will and should get tired of their laziness, put his foot down, and tell your son to step up to the plate and be a man. But for now, continue to stay as positive as you can. Time heals all wounds. Keep calling and emailing and texting every so often to see how things are going with your son. Do not expect that you will get a response. But your actions will let your son know that you still love him and care for him despite what Amber has done. If you can talk to Steve's dad about how things are going with Steve, then feel free to do so. As a mother though, you will always worry about your son. Let the pain go and relish in the fact that one day the son that you knew before Amber came into the picture will return. You must stay positive though.
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