Hello again. Your son is at the age where he is simply asserting his independence. Do not take it personal. He loves you and your husband and needs both of you. But he is at the age where he does not wish to have his parents around all of the time. He may not want to go out to dinner with the family much or attend family functions. This type of behavior is completely normal. There is nothing that you have done wrong at all. Just continue to be the loving and supportive parents and remain interested and concerned about his whereabouts. He just needs and likes his space now. Additionally, he is probably more interested in computer games, television, and texting and talking on a cell phone than spending time with you. Just let it go. All teen age boys are going through this same phase. This too will one day pass.