I agree with you 100%. If it were up to me, I would have called social sevrices already but I'm trying to balance my role in all of this. I dont want to call them without the approval of my fiance.
You did bring up some concerns that I havent yet relayed to my fiance, such as what her intentions may be and the long term benefits of intervening. I know there is no easy way to handle this. I think my struggle lays in getting my fiance to take action.