It is important for your son to spend time with his dad despite your personal feelings toward your ex. Be thankful that your son and your ex have a great relationship and that your ex wants to be a part of his son's life. If you deny your son the opportunity to spend time with his father, he may begin to develop social and behavioral problems that may manifest themselves in school. If your son is happy seeing his dad, then let the relationship continue. For now while your son is young, you have to cast your feelings aside and do everything in the best interest of your son. Make the most of the times that you have with your son. I have heard from many parents that have raised sons, that they will become closer to their mothers in the teen age years. He will come around and be thankful for all that you do for him. However he is young now and cannot express those types of feelings. Just continue to be the loving and most supportive parent that you can be. Everything will work out in time.
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