He is just finishing his session of speech with a speech pathologist. He has learned lots but he still cannot tell you his name if you ask him, or if he wants something he cannot most of the time tell you what it is that he wants. Yes, a lot of his outbursts at home are from frustration either because he wants something he cannot have or for really no apparant reason. This weekend he spilled a cup of milk on the floor on purpose and his cereal. He looked me in the eye and did it. I made him help clean it up and told him "No spilling, now we are cleaning the dirty floor." I'm a single mom of 2 boys but I can tell you that are situation has not changed nor does his brother show the same temperment. It seems though that his behaviour is worse when my sitter takes the kids out. He is seriously hurting other kids which is embarrassing to me and I really don't know how to fix it. I can tell you that my sitter is stern but kind and she doesn't have a problem with any of the other kids there. Should I try a new sitter or would this still just continue? She's loosing her patience with him and everyday he's getting at least 4 or 5 timeouts.