This is a family project ,I am not his supervisor ,we are partners .
Dear Bonnie ,my main concern ...how to act ,what to do to make him respond to my request without hurting his feelings.
OUR MAIN PROBLEM .....SINCE THE CHILDHOOD ..... I START ASKING HIM WITH VERY VERY POLYED MANNER ,AND DON'T GET A RESPOND .....WHAT I SHOULD DO ???
Bonnie ,I am not so much frick controlled mother, somedays I was ,somedays I wasn't .
I didn't have sructure with my son when he was a child ,I didn;t constantly checked him .For a excample ... I asked him to take a trash every friday , today's friday I checked if he did his chore or not,but next friday I didn't (now I know it was mistake )
I am more demanding then controlling
Dear Bonnie ,I think it is number one , but when I asked him something at that moment we have a good relationship and he doesn't angree with me .
What do you think I should to do ?