Thank you for contacting Just Answer. I am very sorry to hear about what is going on with your daughter. I understand full well how you feel --- that she is your daughter and you love her and don't want to throw her out. I think,though, you have to make some rules. One of the rules is that she must be in therapy. She really should be in a psychodynamic therapy. If you look up the British Psychoanalytic Institute theymay be able to help you find someone in your area. She cannot continue to destroy your life. Her behaviour is totally unacceptable.