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Now back to your question-
It may not be appropriate to approach the boys parents. That would cause resentment from your daughter and lead to trust issues. It can also cause the two of them to feel a sense of shame (although the act itself is not something to shame for, it is their age that you are concerned about)
You would want to first address this with your daughter somehow (if you had read her messages without her knowledge, she may become angry and not listen to what you have to say)
The approach you use with her would be of importance. You want her to trust you and to respect your feedback. Perhaps try to solicit information from her as far as how things are going. She's dated the same boy for quite some time now (which is somewhat unusual for a young teenager) Provide some education on sexual behavior (she may have gotten some knowledge from the internet and her friends already)
Even if they halt their relationship, unless you are able to watch her 24/7, she would still do what she wants to do. Your goal would be to let her see that her behavior may have negative consequences. Otherwise, she will do what she wants just to prove that she can (teens are very egocentric) When you talk to her, remain calm, non accusatory and ask open ended questions so she does not feel blamed or put on the spot.